Pamela S. Wynn

Attorney and Counselor at Law

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What is Collaborative Divorce Law?

Collaborative Divorce Law is a different process for divorcing that can help you make a healthy, hopeful transition from one stage of your life to the next based on your family's unique needs and circumstances.

Collaborative Divorce Law strives to provide clients with the support, information and structure they need to reach agreements that are voluntary and of maximum mutual benefit. To achieve this goal, collaboration begins with and emphasizes education prior to negotiation, explores common goals in place of divisive positions, and creates a safe environment for constructive conversation. The emphasis is upon creative agreement rather than hostile victory.

Collaborative Divorce Law is designed to be less time consuming, less expensive and less confrontational than traditional adversarial divorce. Clients are better able to focus on pertinent issues because stress and anxiety are effectively reduced.


Money saved in the collaboration can be used to jointly engage the services of other professionals, such as financial planners or tax accountants.


Collaborative Divorce Law resolutions are reached through a process in which clients have more control and settlements have been designed to meet each party's needs. These agreements are designed to be more sustainable over longer periods of time.


An additional benefit is that the actual collaborative process is more private than a contested divorce generating court filings, transcripts and hearings in open court. If the children decide to look at the court file in the future, all they will see is the agreement attached to a simple divorce petition.


The non-combative atmosphere diminishes hostilities; allows the divorcing spouses to preserve and enhance that which remains of their relationship; and, allows them to learn to work cooperatively during and after the divorce, managing finances and co-parenting children after divorce.